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6 COMMON SYMPTOMS OF LAZINESS

No one likes to hear or admit that he/she is lazy because that term “lazy” does not have a positive connotation. But there are things that can prove if one is lazy or not. The funniest aspect of being lazy is that we are all prone to acts of laziness but when you indulge in the acts regularly that can easily classify you as a lazy person. When you lack interest in the activity or belief in its efficacy, you are lazy.

1- YOU CAN’T FINISH THE BOOKS YOU READ

Readers are leaders. Reading is one of the most common successful habits people who want to do extraordinary things do on daily, weekly or monthly basis. But lazy people prefer not to make use of their brain rather they sit and watch the movies. That is why they cant finish reading a book, they always stop at a point. Make reading your habit, it will positively impact your life.

-YOU BLAME OTHERS
Lazy people are experts at blaming people and their environment. They always make excuses like this and forget that there are rich people in poor country and poor people in rich country. Excuses paralysis you from finding a way to solve problem.

-YOU BEG
Beggars seems to be the laziest people because they have no worldly ambition to do anything or posses anything. All they care about is to eat for living and spend the remaining change on liquor or drugs. There is difference between begging and asking for help. So dont try to get it confused.

-YOU SPEND TOO MUCH TIME ON SOCIAL MEDIA OR TV
I am not saying that you should not check up dates on social media and television. Watching television or being engaged on social media is not act of laziness but laziness comes into it when  your chill time is more than 4hours long and with the suggestion of what to watch next.

YOU PROCASTINATE
This seems to happen to everyone  “putting off work to tomorrow” but when it becomes a habit, you are lazy. If you have dirty clothes to watch, unpaid bills, dirty dishes, or things that need to fix immediately but you are still delaying then you procastinate. If you often leave your work untill the very last minute then you need to adjust before it gets out of hand.

YOU CAN’T SLEEP
Most times people complain of not being able to sleep at night. The lack of sleep or when you find it difficult to catch sleep, it can simply mean that you hasn’t been challenged today. Your sleeplessness can be sign of laziness. Maybe  you have been doing nothing all day, probably sitting from one sit to the bed, gisting, pressing  phone, watching movies without making the use of the gift of your mind and body.

You need to get rid of those unhealthy habits if you find yourself guilty.

“A farmer who is too lazy to plough his fields at the right time will have nothing to harvest.”
                   PROVERB 20:4

EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS TO YOU CAN HELP YOU! … TYLER PERRY TOP 10 RULES.

Emmitt R Perry Jr popularly known as tyler Perry was born in New Orleans, Louisiana on September 13, 1969 to a carpenter father and religious mother. His dad abused him for years that he seek solace through writing upon watching an episode of”THE OPRAH WINFREY SHOW ” (1986). At age 16, he changes his name from Emmitt to tyler, simply because he want to stay clear from his abusive father. He later went for DNA to confirm if his abusive father is truly his biological father.

He really passed through a lot in life, that he attempted suicide twice. But today , he is a billionaire, one of the most important people working in all of entertainment today. The first African American actor/ director/ writer/producer to own a studio with no partner or corporate partner .

Here are his top 10 rules…

DON’T STOP BELIEVING# Spend all your energy on a thing if you want to get there without stopping to believe. “A place where even your dreams believe”. Focus on one idea and make it work, that will give birth to others. “If you spread water across many seas, you don’t have as much water for one sea”. Don’t go to so many directions, stick on one. There is this feeling when something is for you, the deep feeling will cause you not to just let it go. It will keep you going even when you can’t keep going.

CHANGE THE THINKING # That things are done this way or that way does not mean it can’t be changed. Learn to bring in new thoughts and ideas.

OWN THE SHOW# You can be born into a lot of nightmare but God can usher you into a dream. Become the best you can be.

LOVE WORKING# All the ideas, strength, powers are born in your uniqueness, what makes you unique is what make you special. You dont have to mold yourself to fit into a system. If you do, you are dulling down all your abilities to change the world.

NEVER DESPISE SMALL BEGINNINGS # There are things that can change the world when it starts from a very little or tiny beginning. Sometimes, people are not suppose to invite, recognize you to the table. You dont need to be angry, you just need to get to know why you are hidden. The great thing about hidden is that you can be underestimated. But still be able to do something that will not just change your past or your life but millions of people, the one’s around you, family and the ones you don’t know. So when you are hidden, it’s not yet your time to be seen. Learn what you can do, work on the part , at this time. At the right time God will reveal your talent to the world.

HAVE FUN# Make the place you love to be or work, to be fun.

BE A STUDENT OF LIFE# Learn to adjust what “if”. Put out good things.

HAVE FAITH# Anything that happened to you can work for your good if you let it be. Tyler said that everything turned around for him when he forgave his father for everything that he did to him and it made him to be writing peace stories. I totally believe in God. It’s all about having faith and praying to God, he said.

BE A POINT OF LIGHT# He described this by telling a story of Mr buttler. He just started a high school and have to work through the drug dealers and grave yards before he gets to school. One day he was approaching the interception. He heard someone saying can someone help me cross the road? Mr buttler was in a suit , standing in a corner and had a cooler in his hand and folded candies and others in one side, he was asking someone to help him to cross over but people ignored him and kept passing with their busy lives. He then told buttler that he will help him, then he was 13years. Mr buttler said to him, thank you my son, may I have your shoulder son? He said yes!…He told him not to trick him this time, Tyler said he won’t.

They crossed the street and he asked him where he is going? He said to his school to sell candies to the kids. When he got there he thanked Tyler and said that God will bless him for his kindness. They now became friends. He said that Mr buttler was one of the man in his life to see him and what made it more special is that he is blind.

There are many people in this world that are wanting, waiting, begging, hoping, asking, saying will someone help me cross? We all have the power to be a point of light.

SEE HOW YOU DEPRIVE YOURSELF FROM BEING HAPPY

“Happiness is Synthetic- you either create it, or you don’t. The Happiness that lasts is earned through your habits.”

Instead of looking outwards for happiness why not look within and notice all the ways you are preventing yourself from being happy in this very moment. You don’t sort ways to be happy. The bitter truth is that it is always almost impossible to be happy with new habits without breaking the old habits.

To get you started, here are ways you prevent yourself from being happy.

#1 You expect too much. It is naturally okay for human to expect things but when you expect too much especially beyound your reach, it hurts deeply, break hearts and disappoints if it didn’t work out well. Especially if its from those we love and care about.

As Calvin and Hobbes put it “I find my life is a lot easier, the lower I keep my expectations.”

Learn to fix average expectation.

#2 You are ungrateful. You always focus on what others have that you do not have. Be grateful to the things you have instead of focusing on what others have. Stop wanting or comparing what others have. What you see on social media should stop tripping you. Whatever you see is what they want you to see, it might not be a fact.

#3 You hang around with negative people. The mood of the people around you affects how you feel, if you stay with the negative minds they affects you negatively. JOEL OSTEEM says “You cannot expect to live a positive life when you are hanging out with negative people”. They will compel their negative feelings to you that you will lack your happiness and confidence.

#4 You are a pleaser. As long as you always feel to be loved and liked as a good person, you might miss it completely. Finding people that will like and love you for who you are is a multi feeling. Do not forget that standing up to please everyone or to make them to love and like you, gives them chance to manipulate you. Such acts will deprive you from being happy. The more you hustle for approval the less other people feel at ease with you. A psycho therapist once said that once such group of people feel at ease with you, they will always cause you to be sad.

#5 You are broke. Yes money cannot buy happiness but it can help you to get happiness. Like the popular saying, it is better to cry in Lamborghini than on a bicycle. Although happiness is a state of mind but cash has a capacity to boost your state of mind. Money can enhance happiness. Get up today and work because lack of money can keep you unhappy.

#6 You don’t have goals. Goals give a centre purpose and directions. A Scientist once said that working into a meaningful life is being able to achieve goals. It makes you happy. Set goals for yourself, no matter how little, let it be an attainable and time based goals. When you achieve it, you will feel accomplished and not empty.

#7 You are stuck in your comfort zone. Your comfort zone can be comforting but it might not give you the fulfillment you deserve in achieving your dreams. Step out of your comfort zone(it gives life of regrets) , move out of your comfort zone and pursue your dreams. You can feel happy in your comfort zone but you will not feel fulfilled deep down, this can lead to regrets.

#8 You are always alone. Mother Theresa states that “the most terrible poverty is loneliness and the feelings of being unloved”. Although being alone doesn’t make you lonely but can make you unhappy. Even if you don’t have the sanguine personality learn to share few moments with people. Socialising is very good for yourself.

#9 You are scared of the future. Thinking about the future is normal but how you feel about it matters a lot. It might make you to start doubting yourself because the future is filled up with uncertainties (anxious and sad). Learn to be positive.

#10 You dwell in the past. Why do you still think about your betrayals, past wishes , mistakes? Hope you are aware that you can’t undo those actions you keep thinking about because it is now in the past. Such memories causes you to be unhappy, why are you worrying over things you can’t change . As TD JAKES states “The past is in the past, let it go”.

Get up today and look for that thing that made you sad and defeat it. Life is good and you can’t help but smile and be happy.

POINTS TO PONDER ON LEAVING A LEGACY

Have you ever imagined on the kind of legacy you are leaving for your children, family, Community, your world? Many people never thought about this and they forget that legacy is something you are creating everyday, whether you like it or not.

According to Vocabulary.com Dictionary, Legacy comes from the Latin verb, legare which originally is defined as “ambassador” or “envoy” but later shifted to mean the money and property a person leaves behind in his will.

All the above definition met its meaning but legacy is beyound that, it can be pathways that guide people in decisions with what to do or what not to do. It can be the story of someone’s life, how they lived the life. The places they went to, the things they did, their failures, their success, goals they accomplished. It is something that someone leaves behind to be remembered by. Creating a legacy is a situation in which your values and successes can live on. By leaving a legacy is by leaving something of benefit or meaningful behind when our corporal existence has ended.

Here are points to ponder on leaving a legacy

– Do those things you are supposed to do and you will earn your name a favourable place in history.

– Igniting your abilities is living according to God’s blueprint for you.

– Give your ability a reasonable responsibility and it will do what it ought to do .

– Motivate yourself and you will be a challenge motivating others.

-Be challenged by the vast ability lying in the inside of you.

-Everybody wants to be motivated, but only few are challenged. Be a challenger.

-Great men attack opportunities; they never wait for it to come.

-Opportunities floating around you, are enough to motivate you.

-You have a unique and limitless ability that does not exist in another person.

-There is a demand placed on your ability, supply it by Igniting it and you will leave a positive legacy.

Our chief want in life is someone to inspire us to be what you really want to be. # RALPH WALDO EMERSON#

MICHELLE OBAMA’S MOST POWERFUL QUOTES

Michelle Obama has quickly become one of the most influential and respected women in America and the world at large. She is an American lawyer, who was the first lady of the United States from 2009-2017. She is married to the 44th President of the United states, Barack Obama. She is the first African-American first lady of the United States. Michelle lavaugh Robinson was born on the 17th of January 1964 in Chicago, Illinois, US.

Here are her QUOTES

Her powerful quotes on leadership. Michelle Obama is an excellent leader. She was a top leader on her various capacities in career before becoming the first lady of the U.S

  • Real men treat the janitor with the same respect as the CEO.
  • When someone is cruel or acts like a bully, you don’t stoop to their level. No, our motto is, when they go low we go high.
  • Being president doesn’t change who you are – it reveals who you are.
  • We need to fix our souls. Our souls are broken in this nation. We have lost our way. And it begins with inspiration. It begins with leadership
  • I love that for Barack, there is no such thing as “us” and “them” – he doesn’t care whether you’re a Democrat, a Republican, or none of the above…he knows that we all love our country…and he’s always ready to listen to good ideas…he’s always looking for the very best in everyone he meets.

Her Powerful quotes on women. Michelle Obama is one woman I have seen whose passion for women success is evident.

  • I am an example of what is possible when girls from the very beginning of their lives are loved and nurtured by people around them.
  • The difference between a broken community and a thriving one is the presence of woman who are valued.
  • Strong men, strong men, men who are truly role models, don’t need to put down women to make themselves feel powerful.
  • No country can ever truly flourish if it stifles the potential of its women and deprives itself of the contributions of half of its citizens.
  • Women, in particular, need to keep an eye on their physical and mental health because if we’re scurrying to and from appointments and errands, we don’t have a lot of time to take care of ourselves. We need to do a better job of putting ourselves higher on our own ‘to do’ list.

Her Educational quotes. Most of Michelle Obama quotes lay more emphasis on the importance of Education. Education is one thing she took to heart.

  • When girls are educated, their countries become stronger and more prosperous.
  • Every girl, no matter where she lives, deserves the opportunity to develop the promise inside of her.
  • Through my education, I didn’t just develop skills, I didn’t just develop the ability to learn but I developed confidence.
  • If your family doesn’t have much money, I want you to remember that in this country, plenty of folks, including me and my husband. We started out with very little. But with a lot of hard work and a good education, anything is possible – even becoming President. That’s what the American Dream is all about
  • The truth is, in order to get things like universal health care and a revamped education system, then someone is going to have to give up a piece of their pie so that someone else can have more.

Michelle Obama quotes are some of the most powerful sayings. She speaks of different subject matters with passion and zeal. Many who follow in her footsteps are assured

8 IMPORTANT DECISIONS EVERY WOMAN SHOULD MAKE FOR HER LIFE

This is your life, you are the driver. So get out of a passenger seat and start taking control of your decisions and life.

– Live every moment to the absolute fullness. You only have many days on earth, so make the effort to live the best life ever.

– Give yourself room for improvement and multiple chances. You are a human and bound to make mistakes here and now (not necessary silly mistakes). So understand you are imperfect. You are a perfectly imperfect person.

– Take care of your body, take good care of it and be proud of it. Your body is your dear temple, so take care of it, own who you are and be proud.

-Pursue your dreams and let nothing stand in your way. Do not let other small imagination and negativity keep you from following your dreams. Just ignore them and find a new support system. Say “YES” to new opportunities that will help you to grow. This goes hand in hand while following your dreams.

FACTS÷ Everything you want in life is on the other side of fear. Life is about going beyound your comfort zone, for that is the only way to grow.

– Never underestimate your worth and never settle for less than she deserves. You are worth more than you could ever imagine.

-Have patience and love towards you and others. Use your story and voice to inspire others. Your life is your story, so use it to inspire others. It does not matter how many mistakes you’ve made in the past, for it’s how you brought yourself out of them that counts.

-Count your blessings everyday and keep a positive attitude. When you see how blessed you are,you will start loving your life and be okay with where you are.

-Be 100%true to yourself and to the world. You are such a gift to the world. Do not spoil it or cut it short by trying to destroy yourself or trying to be someone else.

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10 MISTAKES YOUNG PEOPLE MAKE AND REGRET LATER IN LIFE

Adolescent and early adulthood is always too excited and carefree time. No wonder people make mistakes at this time. Take this to the mind, when something is so excited,check it out and know if it really mean good.

YOUNG PEOPLE SPEND MONEY ON FANCIFUL AND TRIVIAL THINGS

You spend money on things that are of little significant or value. You want to have fun, show up,buy what people buy. There is nothing wrong with it but it can make you poorer. If you are privileged to see money at this age. Why not invest the money? Build wealth first then you can go for expensive things. Do not be caught broke at 50years.

YOUNG PEOPLE INVEST WITHOUT RESEARCH

Most young people invest because a friend told him/her or they saw where it is being advertised. Do some research before investing. Study real books about what you want to do, atleast 10 books.

DO NOT ACCEPT WHATEVER YOU HEAR AND BELIEVE ANYTHING

Youthful age should be the time to acquire knowledge, learn more and question what you want to digest into your system. It is not every old people are wise, age don’t necessarily come with wisdom (challenge status quo).

DO NOT QUIT OR GIVE UP EASILY

When it gets tough don’t take easier ways. Try something else for easier options.Do not easily give up because you can’t really tell how close you are to winning.

YOUNG PEOPLE THINK THAT SCHOOLING IS ENOUGH TO GET RICH

According to Robert kiyosaki, “your education begins when you leave school, not when you are in school.” It is truth that the real world is very different from the walls of school. Learn daily even to decades after school. Do not stop learning once you leave school. It leads to poverty and unfulfilled life. Read good books/ Audio programmes.

YOUNG PEOPLE DO NOT SAVE MONEY

From the age of 18 to 29, they do not always see it that necessary to save money. Start saving now. Save for investment and emergency.

YOUNG PEOPLE ALWAYS WANT INSTANT GRATIFICATION

This is a great mistake young people make. They want to find the brightest career,source of income and enjoy themselves right now and here, then hurts and regrets later.

DO NOT BLAME YOUR PARENTS FOR MISFORTUNES

Your parents owe you nothing. Yes they brought you to this world and if they couldn’t give you the GOOD ,BETTER, or the BEST in life. It’s still okay, go out and fix your life,failure/success is yours.

LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH TO SUSTAIN A RELATIONSHIP

Love is not sufficient. Two people might not be compatible but

Shared values

Shared dreams

Shared goals

Shared aspirations, communication and argue without hurting one another. This is what you should know in your 20s before thinking of getting married.

YOUNG PEOPLE TRIES TO PLEASE EVERYONE

Do not be a pleaser. There is no formula that gurantee that everyone must like you. Learn to deal with haters.