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10 SIGNS THAT PROOFS YOU ARE MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN YOU THINK

You know, most times we do have a poor track record when it comes to self-assessment. People often underestimate their looks, we dont really know how cool and attractive we look simply because we see ourselves differently from how those around us do. Studies shows that humans aren’t capable of realistically assessing themselves when it comes to physical appearance and attractiveness. We scrutinize every little details about ourselves with the tiniest flaws on our body, then underestimate our self-worth and appeal thus hindering our self-confidence.

But do you know that in the midst of your flaws, people’s attitude and body language towards you might tell a completely different story. They admire you dearly and think that you have a charming personalities.

WONDERING WHAT OTHERS THINK OF YOU CAN BE MADDENING BUT HERE ARE CLUES TO FIGURE IT OUT..

1 STRANGERS STARE AT YOU÷ When strangers stare at you in public, you will feel self-conscious, wondering and be like, why are they staring at me? There must be a reason because there is no smoke without fire. When someone we likes or find attractive walks into a room, we are usually tempted to turn heads, we can’t be able to avert it.

2 PEOPLE ACTS DIFFERENTLY AROUND YOU÷ Are people a lot more jumpy or anxious around you? Do you notice they act different around you and even seen nervous or confused when you approach them. It is stated that attractive people are usually very intimidating and it is almost impossible to stop yourself from getting flustered when you are around someone you like or find attractive.

3 PEOPLE OFTEN DO A DOUBLE TAKE (GLANCE)÷ Most times we often take double glance when we come across someone we find attractive. Ofcourse, there can be many different reasons why we do this but most common way is that we liked what we saw- and wanted to keep looking or admiring. Sometimes we look to catch your attention.

4 PEOPLE WANTS TO TALK TO YOU ÷ Do you or have you always notice that people come up to you to start conversations regardless of what you are doing or who you really are? If so, its simply because they admire you and finds you attractive. People who are attractive gets better recognition or treatment than those that are average-looking. They always get more positive attention. It might not always be a romantic thing but how symmetrical your face is or how you put yourself together.

5 PEOPLE SMILE WHEN THEY SEE YOU÷ If you do get a friendly smile from a stranger or most people you pass by on the road,streets, chances are, they find you attractive. Naturally we smile at things or people that are aesthetically pleasing. Its a common reaction to something or someone that is pleasing to the eye.

6 YOU HAVE HAD MULTIPLE OCCASIONS WHERE SOMEONE OBSESSED OVER YOU÷ As long as you are good looking, you have probably had somone obsess over you. Whether it is a stranger who seemed glued at you, at a party, events or an acquaintance who kept texting and calling you despite you have repeated attempts to brush them off. This is further proof that people find you attractive.

7 YOU GETS LOTS AND LOTS OF DIRECT MESSAGES÷ If your DMS are constantly filled with messages, don’t be surprised, chances are you are good-looking and they want to get to know you. Society’s Standard of beauty put a lot of pressure on everyone. People nowadays loves to connect to beauty.

8 PEOPLE GO OUT OF THEIR WAYS TO HELP YOU÷ An unfair benefit that good-looking people have naturally is that most people – even strangers will go out of their ways just to help you out in your troubles. Have you noticed that others are willing to help you out when you are facing or having a problem, regardless of the situation? We tend to be more friendlier and generous to those we find to be attractive.

9 PEOPLE MAKE “DUCK” LIPS💋 TOWARDS YOU÷ This is another action that happens when we see someone attractive. This act happens about a one-second reaction that may happen several times in a conversation. The subconscious act linked to the way people keeps their lips in a kissable way that sometimes they have the desire to kiss the person. This can also occur when someone repeatedly lick or bite their lips. If you notice such a quick little movement from a stranger, now you know what it means.

10 OTHERS TENDS TO HAVE STRONG FEELINGS ABOUT YOU÷ When you are attractive, people tend to display extreme feelings towards you, whether negative or positive. They can seem overly friendly, or extremely cold and harsh- for just no reason. Whichever extreme they choose to act, it will most likely be because they find you attractive, or intimidating and really wants to get to know you. They will come up to you a lot and make excuses just to have a way to talk to you and be around you. People who are attractive always have an active romantic life, relationships seems to come easy.

So, if you always notice these signs whenever you are with people or you step out into the crowd, then you are super attractive than you think.

Yeah! beauty is cool but attractiveness is not just about your physical appearance- most people wants more than just a pretty face. Learn to accept yourself and be comfortable with who you are; look beyond your insecurities and unreliable perception of yourself. Then you will be amazed on how attractive you can be and how much others value you. Once you get pass these self-imposed obstacles, you will definitely be appealing to senses.

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6 LESSONS PEOPLE OFTEN LEARN TOO LATE IN LIFE

How you approach life says a lot about who you are and how successful and accomplished you can become. Do you know that how you spend your time is how you spend your life.

Here are lessons you dont have to ignore or learn too late in life, shared with examples from great guys

STOP COMPLAINING ÷ If your life turn out great tomorrow, you will be applauded for getting this far but if the case is the opposite, you will be questioned. Therefore stop complaining and start working out for a great life. Gary Vaynerchuck asked, what if I told you this is the last Friday of your life? Would you be complaining about your crab job or that test you dont want to take, the cars you couldnt buy, house you couldn’t build. Stop complaining and start getting what you wanted. You should be grateful and thankful that you are existing in this era where internet has created more opportunity for us, you can attack your world in different amazing ways instead of complaining and your present skips you.

FAMILY MATTERS MORE THAN FRIENDS ÷ No one can choose to go further for you than family. Family is something special, they are people in your life who sincerely want to see you fruitful. Talk to your parents when you still have them. Talk to your siblings and don’t break the bond. Family will always take you above them. Spend time with them, do not allow the relationship to go down. And most importantly, love the child within you dearly because you are the only person who knows how to love them the way they needs to be loved.

DON’T SLEEP WALK THROUGH LIFE ÷ You dont have to stay there and be talking and procastinating as Wareen Buffet puts it ; “look for work you would take, if you didn’t need a job. He stated further that you don’t have to sit right there and always say that things are going to be great. Dont sleep walk through life saying I will do this and that. It is not a good idea. You dont necessarily have to find the thing you love to do at the first time. So don’t give up before you find it.

LIVE LIFE WITHOUT FEAR÷ Fear is the part to the dark side. Will Smith advices, he said if there was a one concept that he will suggest to people to take daily confrontation is fear. He exaggerated by saying that fear lies, the point of maximum danger is the minimum fear. When you are terrified should be the most blissful experience of your life. And God placed the best things in life on the other side of terror, other side of maximum fear are all the best things in life. There are things that you want to do but fear won’t let you but if you get opportuned to do those things, in the midst of fear, at the end you will be grateful. At last the question remains why were you afraid initially on the start. There is actually no reason to be scared about , it ony just ruins your day.

KNOW YOUR DESTINATION ÷ Simon Sinek illustrated by saying, imagine standing in a room and you were asked to walk in a straight line to a corner without letting you know I slip a chair. What do you do? We always use our own creativity and sense of innovation and our own solving problem abilities to overcome obstacles to get to destinations. In other words, destinations are more important than the route, we are flexible about the route and we are obsessed with the destination. The point is that, people want to feel that the effort they are exerting actually are moving somewhere. And so, successful measurement, successful recognition is not just for the steps you take but of the efforts you exerted moved us closer to where we are trying to get to. And that get to crazy ideal, if you didnt change direction, you will be stucked. It is not always in one straight line but it is in one direction.

PEOPLE ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN ANY OTHER THING÷ There is absolutely nothing that is so special in your life than people. Whether beautiful cars, buildings, hobby, books, work,interest , vacation, none of these can ever play the role of a nice person around you. People you spend quality time with are far more important than any other thing you can think about in life. And you need them more during your old age, dont forget this.

ENJOY LIFE ÷ Jack ma stated that he didn’t come to the world to work but to enjoy life. That is why he will retire early inorder to enjoy life when he is young because he dont want to die in his office but die on the beaches 😁.

WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY WILL HAPPEN TO YOU AFTER DEATH?

People take their final breaths on a daily basis to the world beyond . Although we may never had met them or even know them but the reality of death happens every day. The permanent, irreversible cessation of all biological functions that sustain a living organism which is called death happens to thousands of people everyday and slip them into heaven or hell.

NOW WHAT HAPPENS TO THE DEAD?

Immediately the moment afer you dies, your soul temporarily leaves the body and awaits the resurrection. Those who died in Christ or place their faith in Christ will be carried by the angels into the presence of the Lord. They will be absent from the body and be with the Lord while the Unbelievers awaits in hades for the final judgement.

THERE IS LIFE AFTER DEATH AND THERE IS HEAVEN AND HELL. DO NOT BE DECEIVED…

“Our bodies will return to dust of the earth, and the breath of life will go back to God, who gave it to us.” Ecclesiastes 12:7

You dont have to cry out your eyes or feel shattered, when you lost a loved one who died in Christ. I know it is always painful, very painful but always console yourself with these words.

“Our brothers, we want you to know the truth about those who have died, so that you will not be sad, as are those who have no hope. We believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will take back with Jesus, those who have died believing in Him. What we are teaching you now is the Lord’s teaching: we who are alive in the day the lord comes will not go ahead of those who have died. There will be the shout of command, the arch angel’s voice, the sound of God’s trumpet, and the Lord Himself will come down from heaven. Those who have died believing in Christ will rise to life first; then we who are living at that time will be gathered up along with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will always be with the Lord. So then, encourage one another with these words. 1 thessalonians 4:14-18

But the death of a sinner or an unbeliever is so painful and sorrowful because that special person has gone to the beyound, to suffer and gnash teeth. The worst is that his cries, torments even prayers offers no comfort of whatsoever, for there is a great gulf that is fixed where no one can pass to the other side. The sinner will be in his misery alone and there is flame of hope forever and will be denied of seeing his loved ones again.

While the believers, those who died in the Lord are precious in the sight of the Lord. They will be escorted by the angels into the presence of the Lord. They are now comforted. And they have faith of seeing their loved ones again. Death for a believer is a doorway into eternal happiness.

I know it is a sad and painful thing to lower our loved ones in grave in tears but you have to be consoled if your loved one died in Christ because you shall meet them again with joy! to see them smile again and feel their touch ones more… Never to part again!

But if you die as a sinner, you are going to hell. There is absolutely no pleasant way to say it.

Yeah! with no doubt the Bible states that “everyone has sinned and is far away from God’s saving presence.” Romans 3:23

The ‘ALL’ is talking to your soul and mine. But anyone can be saved if he/she realizes the awfulness of our sin against God and feel sorry from our deepest heart and ask for forgiveness and turn away from the sin and accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and your saviour, then thou shall be saved. (Romans 10:9).

Never you allow yourself to shut your eyes in dirty sleep(death) without JESUS CHRIST. Death is not the most painful thing that can happen to humanity but not being able to secure eternal happiness.

YOU CAN ONLY RECEIVE THE GIFT OF ETERNAL LIFE SIMPLY BY DOING THESE THINGS ÷

-Believe in our Lord JESUS CHRIST.

– Ask for your sins to be forgiven.

– Put your trust in the Lord.

-Turn away from your sins.

-Ask for eternal life.

Jesus Christ is God’s wonderful plan for our salvation.

10 BASIC MANNERS EVERY TEEN SHOULD KNOW

A teen who observes the basic manners, who dosent observe it out of pretense but knows that this is the right thing to do anytime, anywhere will be very beneficial to the parents, to the society and even to his/her self. They are easily loved, respected and admired. Sometimes, teens go through phases where they want to look cool and manners go out of the window. Good manners are about respecting yourself and others. You will make life more enjoyable for you and people who come into contact with you if you have good manners.

HERE ARE SOME BASIC MANNERS, YOU NEED TO OBSERVE…

-DO NOT BE A SLAVE TO YOUR CELL PHONE÷ You dont use your phones while you are in the middle of something important like pressing your phone while, while your parents are speaking to you, at the dinner table, etc. This attitude shows how disrespectful and lack of manners, you have got. You dont have to respond to messages or emails unless if its very important and urgent.

-TAKE CARE OF BASIC HYGIENE÷ Cover your mouth while yawning, do not yawn so loud, opening your mouth so wide. Cough into your elbow, cover your mouth when sneezing, do not pick your nose with your hands etc.

Always stand when introduced, speak slowly, clearly and graciously when talking to adults.

YOU DONT TALK BACK AT YOUR PARENTS ÷ Where on earth did you learn such a dirty act? Talking back at people that matter so much in your life. Even if your parents are bad, you still have to accord them their respect as you disobey their negative teachings.

-ENSURE TO WEAR A CLEAN, IRONED AND DECENT CLOTHES ÷ Dressing inappropriately is wrong and its not attractive. It is of a better view to always know what to wear for certain events and occasions. Make it a habit to always wear clean,ironed and decent clothes.

-ASK PERMISSION TO DO THINGS÷ Anytime you realise that you can do anything you want without seeking for permission then know that you lack manners and you might get yourself into trouble one day. Especially if your parents or guardians cant stop you from doing whatever you want to do as a teen.

Say “excuse me” when you need to interrupt in a conversation or you accidentally bump into someone.

Do not answer calls when you are in the middle of face-to-face conversation with your elders.

-When someone ask you questions, learn to use appropriate language and answers. You don’t use slangs unless in a playful atmosphere.

Apologise when you have done something wrong. Learn to say “please” and “thank you”.

Do not loose sight of basic manners because your attitudes is the first thing people see before they can interact with you.

WHAT TEENAGE BOYS FIND ATTRACTIVE IN GIRLS

Every girl loves to be admired especially if the admiration is coming from her crush. Teenage life is a time of carefree time, a time you don’t have much to worry about because you have got someone who is taking care of your bills. Though some teens are not this privileged but every teen deserve this. During this care free time, teens loves to make friends and its a plus if you get admired easily.

So Am here to give girls some tips on what boys find attractive in girls, so that you don’t have to feel isolated or unliked.

BOYS GETS ATTRACTED TO…

PRETTY FACE÷ Yeah! Every one loves pretty face. Boys in general find fine face attractive, so if you have a pretty face, you have got to have many admires. But that pretty face must be naturally beautiful. You dont have to cover your natural looks with loads of make up. Even if you wishes to apply make-up, it should be a tool to enhance your natural beauty not to disguise your face entirely.

SMART AND SEXY GIRL ÷ Boys loves a smart and sexy girl. It is definitely a lethal combination that every teenage guy will chase. Be knowledgeable, know what you have to know .Read good books. Even though you aren’t that pretty, you can kill it with your smartness. Being smart is sexy.

BE FASHIONABLE ÷ You don’t have to wear designers but whatever cloth you have to wear, make sure it fits you even a school uniform. Boys loves girls that knows how to dress, a fashionista. So know how to dress decent yet captivating.

CURVY BODY ÷ Yeah! boys loves to see those curves in all the right places. But you don’t have to go extra length to have a curvy body. Your body will sprout out new body curves as you pass through adolescence age to attain adulthood. So keep maintaining your body as it gets better.

BE INDEPENDENT ÷ Learn to do things yourself. You don’t have to bribe someone to copy notes, write assignments or even to do things you have to do for yourself. Boys see such girls as dull girls. Dull girls are not attractive. You dont have to beg someone to do what you can do for yourself.

SMELL GOOD ÷ Keeping yourself neat does not only make you smell good but also makes you comely. Smelling good, wearing a sweet perfume, makes boys to be attracted to you because guys sense of smell is connected to memory and it leaves a good impression. It drives guys crazy that they will always want to be with you.

BE CONFIDENT÷ Who does not love a confident person? We all do but not necessarily in arrogant manner. Teen guys loves to see a girl that believes in herself, who comports herself well and can have a confident discussion. Although teens are still in a stage of growing up to attain adulthood, so most of you guys struggle with your images and feelings of self consciousness. However it is a huge turn on if you are confident, so start working on it.

LIGHT FLIRTATION IS CUTE ÷ Boys loves it when you can play with them but not a dirty play. For example, you can smile with a little giggling. Insinuate attraction in a playful (especially conversational) way.

DON’T BE A GOSSIP PER ÷ Boys hates to hear what they discussed with you from another source.”not really a bad discussions but normal gist around” maybe that he asked you out and you declined or that there is a rumour that is initiated by you. They hate this act and can table you among their friends as someone that can’t be trusted.

Enjoy your teen age while it lasts. Make cool friends, socialize but stay away from sex, for your own good.

09 BEST PARENTING SKILLS IN THE KNOW

Do you want to feel more fulfilled as a parent? Do you want to avoid the challenges that hurts when one parents wrongly? If your answer is YES! then these tips are meant for you.

With no doubt, raising chid(ren) is one of the most toughest and demanding jobs in the whole wide world. And it is harder if you are responsible. When you are responsible you will always make sure you do the needful, even apply lots of skills in parenting but the irresponsible ones takes the easiest steps even in a nonchalant manner.

HERE ARE PARENTING TIPS THAT WILL DEFINITELY GIVE YOU A POSITIVE RESULTS IF APPLIED PROPERLY…

BUILD YOUR CHILD SELF ESTEEM ÷ A positive sense of self is one of the greatest gifts you can give your child. A child with the high self belief is always more productive in life that the opposite. Learn to allow your child to make choices, you dont need to do everything for your child(ren , learn to start at a very tender age. Stop picking up on your child or always finding faults. Teach them this bravery trick, tell them to always notice the colour of a person’s eyes. It will make the child to appear more confident.

BE CONSISTENT WITH YOUR DISCIPLINE ÷ The goal of discipline is to help children choose and live acceptable behaviours and learn self-control. Your child should not always have his/her own way or do what they wanted. Children needs limits to grow into responsible adults.

ESTABLISH HOUSE RULES FOR YOUR CHILDREN ÷ It can be, do your house chores in the morning before eating . It can as well be do your home work before tuning to you TV stations. It is good to have a system in place. And “a warning” when your child disobeys. Be consistent in your disciplinary methods, you don’t have to discipline a child for walking out on you today and ignore it the next time. Being consistent teaches what you expect.

BE A GOOD ROLE MODEL÷ Every child learn or emulate directly from the attitudes displayed around him or her. Parents are always their childs first role model. Therefore before you misbehave in front of your child think about this and the consequences. Learn to control your anger and have morals. Pin down anything that will cause unnecessary drama around yourself. Studies have shown that children exhibit attitudes that they must have seen or heard.

DO NOT RAISE A SPOILED CHILD÷ Parenting is a very demanding work. A child that has an educated parents and responsible parents in a descent environments will be responsible to his parents and community than a child raised by an irresponsible and uneducated parents coulped with a crime driven environment. When I say “responsible parents” Am not just talking about having morals but also being able to do what you have to do at a given time that will benefit your child. Parents need to be responsible, work on yourself so that you don’t need to raise a spoiled child. You can’t give what you dont have.

IT IS OKAY TO ADJUST YOUR PARENTING STYLE÷ The way you parents your 2 years old child, will not be the same when she clocks 4,6,7,8 years etc. As child(ren changes, gradually, change your parenting style as well. So that they will not miss out. This is more applicable with teens because teens look up to their teens than their parents inorder to fit in. So you dont need to be too hard on them instead enlighten, educate, protect , guard and discipline.

SHOW YOUR CHILDREN UNCONDITIONAL LOVE÷ When I talk about unconditional love, I don’t mean you should spare the rod and spoil the child. There are many huge mistakes parents make in parenting and its mistaken to be love. As a parent, you are meant to correct,guide and discipline your child when needed, but how you express your collective guardians makes all the difference in how a child receives it. Nurture, encourage and enlighten your child(ren, just learn to display love in midst of collective guardians. The only true love a parent can shower to his or her child is to raise the child up to be a responsible citizen.

MAKE OUT TIME TO SPEND WITH YOUR CHILD(REN ÷ There is probably nothing a child would like more than to spend quality time with you. Children who doesn’t get the time they want from their parents often misbehaves especially when they are teens. Look for a way to always connect with your child(ren and give then the privilege to help, decide on how to spend the time.

MANAGE YOUR PARENTING ACTIVITIES÷ You know people who doesn’t know what it takes to raise children, always assume taking care of a child is an easy task. So you need to apply wisdom in parenting because you need to be alive and healthy to raise these Child(ren. Therefore focus on the areas that needs the most attention rather than trying to address everything at once. Try to relax and make yourself happy, if you feel tired.

YOUR SECRET WEAPON TO A SUCCESSFUL 2021.

If your 2020 is that challenging and stressful to you, then it will be of a better idea to adjust yourself this coming new year. There are things you need to add, multiply and subtract in your life inorder not to get the same result at the end of the new year. If you have had a lovely, blessed 2020 then you should keep building until the perfect day.

Am not here to plan your 2021 for you or help you set goals but here to alert you on dos and don’ts that will help you achieve whatever plan you have or need to achieve in this new year.

HERE ARE SOME TIPS…

Firstly, you have to reflect on the years that was. Checkout what gave you joy, what passionately brought tears to your eyes, what really hurt you or break your heart dearly, and what really made you to be thankful? Then what life lessons, did you learn and what did you discover about yourself. As you think and meditate on this issues and being able to find answers, it will provide a vital clues and insights on how you will positively transform your life in this new year. Try as much as you can to not repeat the same mistakes inorder to avoid having the same results in this new year. Forgive yourself and others, and let go.

Choose a new good habits…learn to dress your bed÷ do no leave your bed unkept in the morning. Make your bed to perfection. This simple act will give you a small sense of pride. When you make your bed in the morning, you have accomplished the first task of the day stated by a distinguished speaker. It will encourage you to do another task , another, another and another, at the end of the day, many tasks completed. Little things matters, if you cant do the little things right, you will never be able to do the big things right. If you want to change your world, get up and make your bed. If you atleast have a miserable day, you will atleast come back home and meet a made bed, the one you possibly make.

Get to know and understand who you are and what you want ÷ This is the beginning of your success. If you can answer this questions correctly then you can’t be stopped from being successful. Getting to know and understand what you value, love, desire, passionate about, your strengths and weaknesses then you will be in a better position to set goals that feel right to your soul.

Take care of your body and mind÷ If you are not mentally stable and healthy, you might be able to achieve absolutely nothing because this is the top priorities towards living a happy life. Your body and mind is what lasts for you, for your lifetime. Do not ignore the little warning signs, see the doctor whenever needed. Make it a habit to always have a balanced diet, and exercise regularly.

Sleep more and meditate÷ I know you must have heard this saying that states “dont sleep out your days, months,years even life”. And this has made so many to be cautious of not having enough sleep, you see them work in the midnight and still wake up early in the morning for business or office work. But you forget that you can’t cheat nature. Learn to give your body and mind the rest they need, so that they can function well for you. Get an additional 30 minutes of sleep, start with just 5minutes of meditation each day. Listen to the self, in the mornings 10 to 5minutes. It sets you up for the best of your day. It will help you to plan out your day and understand some actions to take for the day.

Your time is ticking ÷ If you leave your life to randomness, you are stealing from your greatness by bit by bit, hour by hour, day by day, week by week, month by month, year to year. Get disciplined, manage your time especially the free time appropriately.

Do not be a tool to your phone÷ Your phone should be your tool for communication, business, getting informed and not you being a tool to your phone. Know when to make use of the features in your phone, when to put it on silence, ignore, switch it off, visit social medias. If you don’t have boundaries with your phone, it will impact your self control, time, sleep, plans, goals etc. Have absolutely control of your phone.

BE SPIRITUAL ÷ As you need to take care of your body and mind, is same way you have to take care of your soul. Spirituality is superior than physical in every measure. What ever functions physically has already been concluded spiritually. Whatever you need on earth is in a man’s hand but if the man’s heart is not yet touched by God (spiritually) to release it to you, you cant have it. You will keep struggling. Spirituality helps you discover your purpose on earth that brings in a true sense of self- discovery and to operate in a unique and pleasant dimension. It is an essential part of living.

Dear reader, Success is not measured by the material things you have or can display but on how effective you are towards the things of life and humanity. Humans are built to serve, some are called to serve the world, community, 50 people within your reach or even family. We are here to serve. The question is , HOW ARE YOU PERFORMING YOUR SERVICES ?

May your upcoming year be a successful one and above all, may you get out of the bed on January 1st and get back to bed on December 31st. And be effective in between the months.

HAPPY NEW YEAR IN ADVANCE…

WHAT TEEN GIRLS LOVES TO SEE IN TEEN BOYS?

I am here to clarify a fact. Do you know that, the way you guys check out or admire girls, is same way girls check you guys out too? Although what girls find attractive in teen boys varies from person to person but Am her to provide some helpful insights on most things that teen girls find attractive and the ones that truly matters, that will definitely get any girl attracted to you. If you can get atleast a pass mark on these qualities, you are good to go.

Here are some qualities…

PERSONALITY÷ Who you have built yourself up to become determines how you win on daily basis. Apart from being likeable, you can as well always get approval in most deals. Learn to work on who you are. A guy with a good sense of humour is so hot, then who you really are bits looks.

WORK ON YOUR BODY ÷ Don’t be too skinny or big, it isn’t attractive. Some muscles is needed but you dont have to work very hard and looks intimidating.

LEARN TO GIVE A GENUINE COMPLIMENTS ÷ Girls loves compliments from guys . Do you know a slight compliment from you can make a girl’s day lovely and she will start liking you.

BE RESPECTFUL ÷ Saying little things that makes a girl feel respected really means a lot to her. It will make her feel as if she matters and also sends a message to her that you care about her as well.

SPEAK TO GIRLS CONFIDENTLY ÷ You don’t have to mumble while speaking to a girl. Talk to her so that she can hear you clearly. And make sure your words are impactful, don’t just talk.

BE TASTEFULLY FUNNY÷ One of the most important factors in a person is to smile and laugh. It is also a great way to connect to and relax with other people. Girls loves to smile and laugh and getting it from you is a plus.

DRESS NEATLY AND CONFIDENTLY ÷ You don’t have to wear “Gucci” or “Atmosphere” before you can look neat or feel neat. Just look neat and and smell good, keep your entire body neat. Keeping neat does not only keep peopl around you, it also boosts your self confidence.

BE STYLISH÷ Don’t just wear anything, anytime. Good dress sense matters alot especially when its displayed in a unique way. Don’t just put on sports short, there are nice skinny jeans, ripped jeans, lovely polos, Tshirts that will make you look super cute.

TAKE CARE OF YOUR LIPS÷ Your lips should not look dehydrated because that is the first place , girls look at while talking to you. If they are thick and not dehydrated, coupled with a cute dimples, you are likely to get a yes.

BE INTELLIGENT ÷ You have got to be intelligent. Being intelligent doesn’t necessary mean solving the hardest bodmas, physics etc. It is not only by demonstrating knowledge in school but being able to dish out an intelligent conversation and personality.

TRY AND ACT MATURE÷ I know you are a teen but don’t act like a clown, don’t be fucking immature. Just learn to know when to be serious.

VIBING÷ Smart girls love guys, who can vibe without pretense. You can easily get into someone by the time you guys had a very interesting conversation, especially when you guys share the same music taste, fashion, lifestyle.

BE KIND ÷ Nobody is impressed by someone who bullies others or holds himself or clique above everyone else. Cool girls notice the way you treat others. You don’t have to feel too full of yourself. Too much ego can be annoying.

You can have such qualities, if you don’t have them and say bye bye to low self esteem.

80 ACTIONS OF A WISE WOMAN

CONTINUATIONS…

Get the previous 25 actions of a wise woman.☝️

26, They do not have unrealistic expectations from a man.

27, They do not overlook warning signs. Proverb 2:10-11

28, Wise woman avoid rushing to the altar untill they court properly. It is wise to avoid a hasty relationship.

29, A godly wise woman would know that every house is built gradually with wisdom. Proverb 24: 3-4

30, Wise woman avoid saying too much too soon. You need to know if they are ready to handle what they would hear, and if they are ready to also come clean with us.

31, Wise woman do not pretend to be the perfect “proverbs 31” woman. Romans 12:16…The scriptures cannot be broken, the truth in that passage stands but as we see the several abilities of the proverbs 31 woman, we see a mirror of what truly we desire to be, but may not be allowed by time, situations, and challenges of modernity.

32, Wise women do not live in denial, they know and admit when it is over. That is why a wise woman must unlearn to chase after a man but learn to follow after a man.

33, They refuse to display affection before a commitment from the man. Let a man pursue you, and not you pursue him. Learn to be a responder, do not buy love. This practice is still much active till date, if you truly want to enjoy your womanhood and relationship.

34, Wise women refuse to break down because of a broken relationship. 1 Corinthians 16:13. If you are going out with a man, let it be clear and obvious to him and to you that you are still going out. The same with dating and courtship. The engagement needs to be formal, so that each level is clearly defined.

35, Godly women in their wisdom remember that they need a man that will show them honor and treat them always as special. They are attracted to the man who will never downplay their achievements, but rather keep on encouraging them (even when they want to downplay it) until they truly become fulfilled and expressive of what God has done for them.

36, They stay away from despair when there is a delay. Wisdom must prevail in the management of delays, a wise woman must know that delays are never denials, and because it has not happened does not mean it will not happen. It is primarily important that you seek the face of God, and establish His call on your life. If we accept it or not, we need to know that some of us may have been called to a celibate life, and will only find fulfillment within the scope of our calling.

37, Wise women keep believing, trusting and praying to JESUS. They do not just connect with a spouse who would erode their Christian life, if anything, it should enhance it, because they know that whatever reduces their devotion to the LORD may be that which is the beginning of one’s downfall.

38, They do not marry a man who can’t support the family. (1Timothy 5:8). The man is called the bread winner in the scriptures, his function is to provide and protect the family. In his calling as the provider, the wife’s income must be regarded as supplementary.

39, They are wise to say NO in courtship to things they do not want in marriage. (PROVERB 27:5)

40, Wise woman emulate Ruth. Ruth walked in the friendship that is the foundation for a healthy relationship. You can’t live your life in isolation, that is why God surrounds you with people. You must be able to have friends, who will validate you, encourage you and help you to be a WINNER. Healthy relationships are necessary to be a healthy person. Your social contacts are an indication of how you have chosen to make your life work. Difficulties or troubles should not stop you because it doesn’t last for a lifetime.

Compliments of the season🌲🌲🌲…

TO BE CONTINUED…

IS IT RIGHT FOR A “TRUE” CHRISTIAN TO CELEBRATE CHRISTMAS?

Christmas is the time Christians celebrate the anniversary of the birth of JESUS of Nazareth but some christians still question ,argue and debate on such activity, if its is right or wrong.

Though there is no solid evidence that Jesus Christ was born in December. In fact, the Bible does not mention a date for the birth of Jesus Christ or a date to celebrate His birthday.

HOW DID THIS “CHRISTMAS CELEBRATION CAME TO BE?

In the first three centuries of the existence of christianity, Jesus Christ’s birth was not celebrated at all until at the end of the third century, when the church officials agreed on December 25th as a day to be celebrating the birth of Christ. The first official mention of December 25th as a holiday honouring Jesus Christ’s birthday appears in an early Roman Calendar from 336 A.D.

Yes! with no doubt, the bible didn’t mention the date and month christ was born but the church(Christians) brought out a date for His celebration based on the reference of what happened during His birth which showed that it is during springtime He was birthed. Then the church agreed on such day 25th December. If we are doubting the spring time, why would the shepherds be herding in the middle of winter?

Apart from the season Christ was born, the church officials also chose this day inorder to deny the legitimacy of the celebration of purtians ,the tradition of the pagan saturnalia festival.

Pope Julius 1 chose December 25th inorder to adopt the traditions of the pagan. A date to coincide with existing pagan festivals honouring Saturn(the Roman god of agriculture) and Mithra( the persian god of light), So that they can easily convince saturnalia and the Roman pagans to accept christianity as the empire’s official religion. By the end of the eight century, the celebration of Christmas had spread all the way to Scandinavia. By the middle Ages, Christianity had, for the most part, replaced pagan religion.

So it is the church that came to the conclusion of this date, so any other arguement shouldn’t be necessary. Most of some holidays we observe on earth doesnt mean that the day they assume, doesn’t trully mean the actual birthed day but they concluded on a date and we observe it. When the United Nations brought out days for us to celebrate diseases and affirmatives. Did you argue with them?

Who told you that the day diabetes, cancer, Aids, labour etc. are being celebrated is the day they were really born or came into existence.

As long as it is the church that declared such a beautiful day then our dear GOD will indeed acknowledge it.

HERE ARE SOME CHRISTMAS FACTS…

DO YOU KNOW that Christmas was first declared a federal holiday in the united states on June 26,1870.

-Christmas tress was first brought to America in the 1800s.

-Christmas trees takes six to eight years to mature.

-The first Christmas trees were brought indoors by 16th century by German Christians, and Martin Luther is credited with placing the first burning candles in Christmas tree to mimic the sparkling stars.

-Do you know that the tallest Christmas tree is believed to be 122-footin Washington.

-Do you know that, the marketing of Christmas tree is still very effective till date. Each year, 30 to 35 million real Christmas trees are sold in the United states alone.

-The idea of electric lights for Christmas tree was initiated by Thomas Edison’s assistants.

-98 percent of all Christmas trees are grown on farms.

-the Christmas tree tradition to the white house was brought by the 14th President, Franklin pierce.

-“Jingle Bells” was originally titled “One Horse Open Sleigh”.

-It is James Lord Pierpont who composed the song “Jingle Bells”.

-The legendary figure of santa claus can be traced back to St. Nicholas, a Turkish-born monk from the third century. Who was known as Sinter Klaas.

-Charles Dickens, the English author created the classic holiday tale, A Christmas carol.

-the National Christmas tree lighting ceremony that is now held every year on the white House lawn is established in 1923, by President Calvin Coolidge.

-Do you know that there was a time the celebration of Christmas stopped a war? Pope Benedict XV called for a temporary ceasefire during a Christmas season on December 7th, 1914, five months into the outburst of fighting, in world war1.

In conclusion, I look forward every year to celebrate JESUS CHRIST on the day we all agreed to celebrate our LORD’S glorious birth… I don’t know about you?

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