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6 LESSONS PEOPLE OFTEN LEARN TOO LATE IN LIFE

How you approach life says a lot about who you are and how successful and accomplished you can become. Do you know that how you spend your time is how you spend your life.

Here are lessons you dont have to ignore or learn too late in life, shared with examples from great guys

STOP COMPLAINING ÷ If your life turn out great tomorrow, you will be applauded for getting this far but if the case is the opposite, you will be questioned. Therefore stop complaining and start working out for a great life. Gary Vaynerchuck asked, what if I told you this is the last Friday of your life? Would you be complaining about your crab job or that test you dont want to take, the cars you couldnt buy, house you couldn’t build. Stop complaining and start getting what you wanted. You should be grateful and thankful that you are existing in this era where internet has created more opportunity for us, you can attack your world in different amazing ways instead of complaining and your present skips you.

FAMILY MATTERS MORE THAN FRIENDS ÷ No one can choose to go further for you than family. Family is something special, they are people in your life who sincerely want to see you fruitful. Talk to your parents when you still have them. Talk to your siblings and don’t break the bond. Family will always take you above them. Spend time with them, do not allow the relationship to go down. And most importantly, love the child within you dearly because you are the only person who knows how to love them the way they needs to be loved.

DON’T SLEEP WALK THROUGH LIFE ÷ You dont have to stay there and be talking and procastinating as Wareen Buffet puts it ; “look for work you would take, if you didn’t need a job. He stated further that you don’t have to sit right there and always say that things are going to be great. Dont sleep walk through life saying I will do this and that. It is not a good idea. You dont necessarily have to find the thing you love to do at the first time. So don’t give up before you find it.

LIVE LIFE WITHOUT FEAR÷ Fear is the part to the dark side. Will Smith advices, he said if there was a one concept that he will suggest to people to take daily confrontation is fear. He exaggerated by saying that fear lies, the point of maximum danger is the minimum fear. When you are terrified should be the most blissful experience of your life. And God placed the best things in life on the other side of terror, other side of maximum fear are all the best things in life. There are things that you want to do but fear won’t let you but if you get opportuned to do those things, in the midst of fear, at the end you will be grateful. At last the question remains why were you afraid initially on the start. There is actually no reason to be scared about , it ony just ruins your day.

KNOW YOUR DESTINATION ÷ Simon Sinek illustrated by saying, imagine standing in a room and you were asked to walk in a straight line to a corner without letting you know I slip a chair. What do you do? We always use our own creativity and sense of innovation and our own solving problem abilities to overcome obstacles to get to destinations. In other words, destinations are more important than the route, we are flexible about the route and we are obsessed with the destination. The point is that, people want to feel that the effort they are exerting actually are moving somewhere. And so, successful measurement, successful recognition is not just for the steps you take but of the efforts you exerted moved us closer to where we are trying to get to. And that get to crazy ideal, if you didnt change direction, you will be stucked. It is not always in one straight line but it is in one direction.

PEOPLE ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN ANY OTHER THING÷ There is absolutely nothing that is so special in your life than people. Whether beautiful cars, buildings, hobby, books, work,interest , vacation, none of these can ever play the role of a nice person around you. People you spend quality time with are far more important than any other thing you can think about in life. And you need them more during your old age, dont forget this.

ENJOY LIFE ÷ Jack ma stated that he didn’t come to the world to work but to enjoy life. That is why he will retire early inorder to enjoy life when he is young because he dont want to die in his office but die on the beaches 😁.

WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY WILL HAPPEN TO YOU AFTER DEATH?

People take their final breaths on a daily basis to the world beyond . Although we may never had met them or even know them but the reality of death happens every day. The permanent, irreversible cessation of all biological functions that sustain a living organism which is called death happens to thousands of people everyday and slip them into heaven or hell.

NOW WHAT HAPPENS TO THE DEAD?

Immediately the moment afer you dies, your soul temporarily leaves the body and awaits the resurrection. Those who died in Christ or place their faith in Christ will be carried by the angels into the presence of the Lord. They will be absent from the body and be with the Lord while the Unbelievers awaits in hades for the final judgement.

THERE IS LIFE AFTER DEATH AND THERE IS HEAVEN AND HELL. DO NOT BE DECEIVED…

“Our bodies will return to dust of the earth, and the breath of life will go back to God, who gave it to us.” Ecclesiastes 12:7

You dont have to cry out your eyes or feel shattered, when you lost a loved one who died in Christ. I know it is always painful, very painful but always console yourself with these words.

“Our brothers, we want you to know the truth about those who have died, so that you will not be sad, as are those who have no hope. We believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will take back with Jesus, those who have died believing in Him. What we are teaching you now is the Lord’s teaching: we who are alive in the day the lord comes will not go ahead of those who have died. There will be the shout of command, the arch angel’s voice, the sound of God’s trumpet, and the Lord Himself will come down from heaven. Those who have died believing in Christ will rise to life first; then we who are living at that time will be gathered up along with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will always be with the Lord. So then, encourage one another with these words. 1 thessalonians 4:14-18

But the death of a sinner or an unbeliever is so painful and sorrowful because that special person has gone to the beyound, to suffer and gnash teeth. The worst is that his cries, torments even prayers offers no comfort of whatsoever, for there is a great gulf that is fixed where no one can pass to the other side. The sinner will be in his misery alone and there is flame of hope forever and will be denied of seeing his loved ones again.

While the believers, those who died in the Lord are precious in the sight of the Lord. They will be escorted by the angels into the presence of the Lord. They are now comforted. And they have faith of seeing their loved ones again. Death for a believer is a doorway into eternal happiness.

I know it is a sad and painful thing to lower our loved ones in grave in tears but you have to be consoled if your loved one died in Christ because you shall meet them again with joy! to see them smile again and feel their touch ones more… Never to part again!

But if you die as a sinner, you are going to hell. There is absolutely no pleasant way to say it.

Yeah! with no doubt the Bible states that “everyone has sinned and is far away from God’s saving presence.” Romans 3:23

The ‘ALL’ is talking to your soul and mine. But anyone can be saved if he/she realizes the awfulness of our sin against God and feel sorry from our deepest heart and ask for forgiveness and turn away from the sin and accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and your saviour, then thou shall be saved. (Romans 10:9).

Never you allow yourself to shut your eyes in dirty sleep(death) without JESUS CHRIST. Death is not the most painful thing that can happen to humanity but not being able to secure eternal happiness.

YOU CAN ONLY RECEIVE THE GIFT OF ETERNAL LIFE SIMPLY BY DOING THESE THINGS ÷

-Believe in our Lord JESUS CHRIST.

– Ask for your sins to be forgiven.

– Put your trust in the Lord.

-Turn away from your sins.

-Ask for eternal life.

Jesus Christ is God’s wonderful plan for our salvation.

10 BASIC MANNERS EVERY TEEN SHOULD KNOW

A teen who observes the basic manners, who dosent observe it out of pretense but knows that this is the right thing to do anytime, anywhere will be very beneficial to the parents, to the society and even to his/her self. They are easily loved, respected and admired. Sometimes, teens go through phases where they want to look cool and manners go out of the window. Good manners are about respecting yourself and others. You will make life more enjoyable for you and people who come into contact with you if you have good manners.

HERE ARE SOME BASIC MANNERS, YOU NEED TO OBSERVE…

-DO NOT BE A SLAVE TO YOUR CELL PHONE÷ You dont use your phones while you are in the middle of something important like pressing your phone while, while your parents are speaking to you, at the dinner table, etc. This attitude shows how disrespectful and lack of manners, you have got. You dont have to respond to messages or emails unless if its very important and urgent.

-TAKE CARE OF BASIC HYGIENE÷ Cover your mouth while yawning, do not yawn so loud, opening your mouth so wide. Cough into your elbow, cover your mouth when sneezing, do not pick your nose with your hands etc.

Always stand when introduced, speak slowly, clearly and graciously when talking to adults.

YOU DONT TALK BACK AT YOUR PARENTS ÷ Where on earth did you learn such a dirty act? Talking back at people that matter so much in your life. Even if your parents are bad, you still have to accord them their respect as you disobey their negative teachings.

-ENSURE TO WEAR A CLEAN, IRONED AND DECENT CLOTHES ÷ Dressing inappropriately is wrong and its not attractive. It is of a better view to always know what to wear for certain events and occasions. Make it a habit to always wear clean,ironed and decent clothes.

-ASK PERMISSION TO DO THINGS÷ Anytime you realise that you can do anything you want without seeking for permission then know that you lack manners and you might get yourself into trouble one day. Especially if your parents or guardians cant stop you from doing whatever you want to do as a teen.

Say “excuse me” when you need to interrupt in a conversation or you accidentally bump into someone.

Do not answer calls when you are in the middle of face-to-face conversation with your elders.

-When someone ask you questions, learn to use appropriate language and answers. You don’t use slangs unless in a playful atmosphere.

Apologise when you have done something wrong. Learn to say “please” and “thank you”.

Do not loose sight of basic manners because your attitudes is the first thing people see before they can interact with you.

WHAT TEENAGE BOYS FIND ATTRACTIVE IN GIRLS

Every girl loves to be admired especially if the admiration is coming from her crush. Teenage life is a time of carefree time, a time you don’t have much to worry about because you have got someone who is taking care of your bills. Though some teens are not this privileged but every teen deserve this. During this care free time, teens loves to make friends and its a plus if you get admired easily.

So Am here to give girls some tips on what boys find attractive in girls, so that you don’t have to feel isolated or unliked.

BOYS GETS ATTRACTED TO…

PRETTY FACE÷ Yeah! Every one loves pretty face. Boys in general find fine face attractive, so if you have a pretty face, you have got to have many admires. But that pretty face must be naturally beautiful. You dont have to cover your natural looks with loads of make up. Even if you wishes to apply make-up, it should be a tool to enhance your natural beauty not to disguise your face entirely.

SMART AND SEXY GIRL ÷ Boys loves a smart and sexy girl. It is definitely a lethal combination that every teenage guy will chase. Be knowledgeable, know what you have to know .Read good books. Even though you aren’t that pretty, you can kill it with your smartness. Being smart is sexy.

BE FASHIONABLE ÷ You don’t have to wear designers but whatever cloth you have to wear, make sure it fits you even a school uniform. Boys loves girls that knows how to dress, a fashionista. So know how to dress decent yet captivating.

CURVY BODY ÷ Yeah! boys loves to see those curves in all the right places. But you don’t have to go extra length to have a curvy body. Your body will sprout out new body curves as you pass through adolescence age to attain adulthood. So keep maintaining your body as it gets better.

BE INDEPENDENT ÷ Learn to do things yourself. You don’t have to bribe someone to copy notes, write assignments or even to do things you have to do for yourself. Boys see such girls as dull girls. Dull girls are not attractive. You dont have to beg someone to do what you can do for yourself.

SMELL GOOD ÷ Keeping yourself neat does not only make you smell good but also makes you comely. Smelling good, wearing a sweet perfume, makes boys to be attracted to you because guys sense of smell is connected to memory and it leaves a good impression. It drives guys crazy that they will always want to be with you.

BE CONFIDENT÷ Who does not love a confident person? We all do but not necessarily in arrogant manner. Teen guys loves to see a girl that believes in herself, who comports herself well and can have a confident discussion. Although teens are still in a stage of growing up to attain adulthood, so most of you guys struggle with your images and feelings of self consciousness. However it is a huge turn on if you are confident, so start working on it.

LIGHT FLIRTATION IS CUTE ÷ Boys loves it when you can play with them but not a dirty play. For example, you can smile with a little giggling. Insinuate attraction in a playful (especially conversational) way.

DON’T BE A GOSSIP PER ÷ Boys hates to hear what they discussed with you from another source.”not really a bad discussions but normal gist around” maybe that he asked you out and you declined or that there is a rumour that is initiated by you. They hate this act and can table you among their friends as someone that can’t be trusted.

Enjoy your teen age while it lasts. Make cool friends, socialize but stay away from sex, for your own good.

09 BEST PARENTING SKILLS IN THE KNOW

Do you want to feel more fulfilled as a parent? Do you want to avoid the challenges that hurts when one parents wrongly? If your answer is YES! then these tips are meant for you.

With no doubt, raising chid(ren) is one of the most toughest and demanding jobs in the whole wide world. And it is harder if you are responsible. When you are responsible you will always make sure you do the needful, even apply lots of skills in parenting but the irresponsible ones takes the easiest steps even in a nonchalant manner.

HERE ARE PARENTING TIPS THAT WILL DEFINITELY GIVE YOU A POSITIVE RESULTS IF APPLIED PROPERLY…

BUILD YOUR CHILD SELF ESTEEM ÷ A positive sense of self is one of the greatest gifts you can give your child. A child with the high self belief is always more productive in life that the opposite. Learn to allow your child to make choices, you dont need to do everything for your child(ren , learn to start at a very tender age. Stop picking up on your child or always finding faults. Teach them this bravery trick, tell them to always notice the colour of a person’s eyes. It will make the child to appear more confident.

BE CONSISTENT WITH YOUR DISCIPLINE ÷ The goal of discipline is to help children choose and live acceptable behaviours and learn self-control. Your child should not always have his/her own way or do what they wanted. Children needs limits to grow into responsible adults.

ESTABLISH HOUSE RULES FOR YOUR CHILDREN ÷ It can be, do your house chores in the morning before eating . It can as well be do your home work before tuning to you TV stations. It is good to have a system in place. And “a warning” when your child disobeys. Be consistent in your disciplinary methods, you don’t have to discipline a child for walking out on you today and ignore it the next time. Being consistent teaches what you expect.

BE A GOOD ROLE MODEL÷ Every child learn or emulate directly from the attitudes displayed around him or her. Parents are always their childs first role model. Therefore before you misbehave in front of your child think about this and the consequences. Learn to control your anger and have morals. Pin down anything that will cause unnecessary drama around yourself. Studies have shown that children exhibit attitudes that they must have seen or heard.

DO NOT RAISE A SPOILED CHILD÷ Parenting is a very demanding work. A child that has an educated parents and responsible parents in a descent environments will be responsible to his parents and community than a child raised by an irresponsible and uneducated parents coulped with a crime driven environment. When I say “responsible parents” Am not just talking about having morals but also being able to do what you have to do at a given time that will benefit your child. Parents need to be responsible, work on yourself so that you don’t need to raise a spoiled child. You can’t give what you dont have.

IT IS OKAY TO ADJUST YOUR PARENTING STYLE÷ The way you parents your 2 years old child, will not be the same when she clocks 4,6,7,8 years etc. As child(ren changes, gradually, change your parenting style as well. So that they will not miss out. This is more applicable with teens because teens look up to their teens than their parents inorder to fit in. So you dont need to be too hard on them instead enlighten, educate, protect , guard and discipline.

SHOW YOUR CHILDREN UNCONDITIONAL LOVE÷ When I talk about unconditional love, I don’t mean you should spare the rod and spoil the child. There are many huge mistakes parents make in parenting and its mistaken to be love. As a parent, you are meant to correct,guide and discipline your child when needed, but how you express your collective guardians makes all the difference in how a child receives it. Nurture, encourage and enlighten your child(ren, just learn to display love in midst of collective guardians. The only true love a parent can shower to his or her child is to raise the child up to be a responsible citizen.

MAKE OUT TIME TO SPEND WITH YOUR CHILD(REN ÷ There is probably nothing a child would like more than to spend quality time with you. Children who doesn’t get the time they want from their parents often misbehaves especially when they are teens. Look for a way to always connect with your child(ren and give then the privilege to help, decide on how to spend the time.

MANAGE YOUR PARENTING ACTIVITIES÷ You know people who doesn’t know what it takes to raise children, always assume taking care of a child is an easy task. So you need to apply wisdom in parenting because you need to be alive and healthy to raise these Child(ren. Therefore focus on the areas that needs the most attention rather than trying to address everything at once. Try to relax and make yourself happy, if you feel tired.