What are the chances that you are going to make it in life? How likely that you are going to be successful. Do not forget that you don’t just dream success, you work it out. Your actions today determines who you will become tomorrow .
Am here to share habits that makes successful people successful. THESE ARE THE SIGNS THAT FOLLOW THEM÷
SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE KEEP GOING WHEN THEY SUFFER SETBACK…They embrace failures, they dont take it personal or quit. Do you know that successful people has always been the ones who have failed more than anybody else. The only difference between successful person and other people is lack of will. Failures breaks down other people while the successful people cleans up and keep going. Successful people are ridiculously positive about their future. When I carried out research about Warren Buffet one of the informations I got about him that I will never forget is the fact that he said that “I always know I will be rich” even before he became a millionaire. Successful people always have positive expectations about their future even if the part seems not clear.
THEY HAVE GROWTH MINDSET ÷ They believe that brains and talents are just starting point. Then their most basic abilities can be developed through dedication and hard work. Great men and women always learn and grow without stopping. They read, listens to educative materials, get coached from successful people. You might have the biggest ideas but if you can’t communicate those ideas to the people, you won’t go anywhere. The more you know the more you realise you dont know, the less you know, the more you think you know.
THEY HAVE GREAT HABITS÷ What do you do regularly or addicted to? Successful people have great habits while the opposite people have lousy habits. Habits determines 95% of a persons behaviour. Whatever you have today or going to achieve tomorrow depends on the quality of habits you form today. Successful habits can be eating well, getting enough sleep, Exercise, practicing personal reflection, creating a successful circle while the opposite can be taking drugs, lazy, gossiping, partying, always on television etc.
THEY LOVE WHAT THEY DO÷ Love the work you do. When you do what you are passionate about, you will be more productive. It will make you to be more engaged and dedicated. When you love what you do, it will always be fun and you won’t feel tired anymore.
THEY ARE SELF AWARE÷ People who are self aware understands themselves, they know their weaknesses, strength, manage emotions. They know what they are good at and what they are not good at. If you are highly self aware, you can objectively evaluate yourself, manage your emotions, align your behaviour with your values and understand correctly how others perceive you. This allows you to make better decisions.
THEY ARE INCREDIBLY DRIVEN÷ They are passionately motivated to achieve goals. They have encouragement from within. How well do you push yourself to get good results? It is your personal drive that turns your ideas and actions to a profitable result. It drives you from where you are now to where you choose to be.
THEY ARE CONFIDENT IN THEIR ABILITIES÷ They accept their abilities which come with accepting of one’s body and mind which is the act of believing in your ability, skills and experience. Self doubt/fear of the unknown are the biggest enemy of self confidence. We struggle with self doubt and worry if we are ready for this or good enough. Self confident is nothing more than believing in yourself and believing in yourself is nothing more than doing the things you didn’t believe you can do. You know it is easy to believe in yourself when people believe in you but the real deal is believing in yourself when no one believes in you. You need unshakeable self confidence to succeed. But confidence is not arrogance . Arrogance is when you think you are above everyone while Confidence is knowing that no one is above you.
THEY HAVE HIGH EQ÷ EQ is Emotional quotient otherwise known as emotional intelligence. People who are emotionally intelligent might not be the smartest people in the world but they surround themselves with smart people. When it comes to being successful, EQ eats IQ for breakfast. IQ is mostly its genetic, what you are born with however EQ is acquired, it could be developed, learned, and refined. They know how to deal with stress, anxiety, issues. If you can manage your emotions positively, you can manage anything.
In conclusion, Success is not measured by your net worth or how much money , material things you possess but on how many lives your have affected positively. Learn to differentiate the two.