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80 ACTIONS OF A WISE WOMAN…

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16 – GODLY WOMEN ARE PEOPLE OF LOYALTY AND COMMITMENT. Ruth 1: 16-17 ÷ Loyalty and commitment are higher than mere involvement. Godly women choose their relationship and once they find it they show loyalty and total commitment. A faithful woman is said to abound in blessing, disloyalty will result in betrayal and when you betray others, you might reap the fruit of the seed you have sown.

17 – A GODLY WOMAN HAS AN UNFLINCHING COMMITMENT TO THE LORD. Ruth1:17 ÷ People who are committed to the Lord become amiable; They become accessible to God. God is not looking for a majority but those who are committed to His calling and purpose for their lives.

18 – A WISE WOMAN BUILDS RELATIONSHIPS THAT ARE BASED ON VALUES NOT VALUABLES…. Relationships built on valuables don’t last. Relationships built on valuables has no strenght. Its like building your house upon the sand. It will not be able to stand the storms and the hassles; the elements will tear it apart. When you put value to your relationship, you make marriage work. Putting value to your relationships means improving relationships with people.

19 – WISE WOMEN AVOID BEING TERMINATORS OR DESTROYERS OF THE WARRIOR SPIRIT IN THEIR MAN…Male chauvinism is not right, yet a man by nature is made by God to be a warrior. A wise woman will let the man be the pursuant. She would let him suggest and run around for special occasions. Let him suggest and run around for special occasions. Do not help him to fulfil the romantic blank, let him pursue it and show that he deserves your hand. Do not kill the warrior spirit in him; do not kill the warrior spirit in him; do not deny him the ability to use his potential either. Do not do more for him than he does for you, though it is important that there should be a mutual exchange and love in marriage but let him be the man and you, the woman.

20 – WISE WOMEN ENGAGE THEMSELVES IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP …Ruth walked in the frienship that is a foundation for a healthy relationship. You can’t live your life in isolation, that is why God surrounds you with people. You must be able to have friends, who will validate you, encourage you, and help you to be a WINNER. Healthy relationships are necessary to be practiced by a healthy person. Your social contacts are an indication of how you have chosen to make your life work. Challenges should not stop you because it doesn’t last for ever.

21 – GODLY WOMEN STAND WITH PEOPLE THROUGH THEIR HARD TIMES. RUTH 1:14 ÷ your ability to become a bridge to people’s trouble water, marks you out for distinction.

22 – GODLY WOMEN ARE MARKED BY THEIR ABILITY TO KEEP PROMISES COLOSIANS 3:9 ÷ The true worth of a person is the ability to keep promises. God is only as good as His word. A godly woman will be measured not by her eternals, but by her her internal ability to stay true to the promise she has made.

23 – THEY ATTRACT OUTSTANDING COMPASSION. Godly women move away from the grief of the past. The grief you walk in may ruin the joy you should know. If you are unable to let go of grief, you welcome self – destruct.

24 – A GODLY WOMAN IS WILLING TO SACRIFICE FEMININE PRIDE FOR GENERATIONAL BLESSING. RUTH3:3 ÷ Most women don’t play the most important role a woman needs to play in her “home” marriage. They don’t have time for the children God gave them rather devote much time in pursuit of money, and at last she achieve NOTHING.

25 – GODLY WOMEN ARE MARKED BY THEIR DILIGENCE ÷ Diligence is the quality that would lift you to the level of success. Romans 12:11.

Diligence multiplies God’s grace in you. 2peter 1:5

Diligence exposes the gift and calling of God on your life 2peter1:10

Some people dream of accomplishment, godly women stay up to make it happen.

Diligence protects your heart from contamination. Proverbs 4:23

Infact, diligence is your doorway to prosperity. Proverb 13:4

TO BE CONTINUED…

REASONS YOU SHOULDN’T HAVE SEX AS A TEEN.

I know some of you will be asking back, why shouldn’t I have sex. Why should l listen to your sermon, when I have something in my mind that I feel cool with, why should I wait or abstain.

Yeah! Having sex may seem cool, especially when you are a teen, you would love to fit in with friends but such action comes with risks and consequences.

Having sex as a teen or out of commitment, non-marital sex partners always leads to a wide variety of negativity in life matters. You may not be prepared to deal with the potential emotional, social and behavioural consequences.

Here are some of the consequences…

YOU CAN DAMAGE YOUR IMAGE÷ Getting your image damaged is applicable to both boys and girls. This include how you feel about yourself or how people feel about you. To the girl, you might become a town bicycle(loose girl), everyone has had a ride. While the boy has asked almost all the girls out (Skirt chaser). Teen age is the time the hormones are stimulating, building up, so if you are unable to build your self control now, you might loose it for life. You can easily fall for sexual activities even when you are not pressurised.

YOU CAN CARELESSLY LOOSE YOUR VIRGINITY ÷ Closing your legs tight and being able to control your sexual urge will not only be one of the best gifts you can give to your spouse but also to yourself. It will prevent you from getting depressed, frustrated and distracted. I used to feel very disappointed when I counsel teens who are depressed, at this tender age, they are fade up with life. And I noticed that most of them started experiencing life so fast. How can you imagine giving up your virginity to the wrong person , at the wrong time and finally find out that you were used and dumped?

YOU MAY CONTACT ONE OF THE DANGEROUS DISEASES IN TOWN

Many people are treating one disease or the other in pains and difficulties simply because they were not cautious. You will agree with me that the rate people engage themselves in fornication nowadays is alarming , even some are now seeing it as norm ” Nah normal thing” and they suffer it directly or indirectly. It only takes having sex with infected partner to get yourself infected. And having sexual intercourse with more than one person increases the risks. You might say what about condoms? The usage of condoms can only reduce the chances but cant prevent it completely. As Russian Roulette once said, “you will have a bullet in that chamber and eventually you could get it”. The question is, how sure are you that your partner does not have any other partner except you?

YOU CAN END UP WITH A POSITIVE PREGNANCY TEST÷ How will you feel as a girl if you get abandoned by your so called boyfriend and that of your family at this critical time of your life. Do you know the kind of emotional trauma you will pass through simply because you were not smart enough to decode the outcome of todays activities. Enjoy your carefree teen age and live the matters that concern adults, for the sake of your own sanity.

YOU MIGHT RAISE A CHILD ALL BY YOURSELF ÷ To raise a child is not an easy task and to raise a responsible one takes a responsible mother or father to achieve such goal. Why would you agree to put yourself in such state when you can easily have the best, life can offer. Dropping an innocent child along the road, dustbin side, or killing them when they have never bargained with you to bring them to the world is indeed a wicked act.

YOU MAY END UP INFERTILE ÷ Yes! I know there are different ways to play smart and prevent yourself from getting pregnant but the question is how healthy are such decisions? We often forget that the rightful way to attain adulthood can never be outdated. We claim we are smart today and sings had I known tomorrow.

YOU MIGHT FACE CHALLENGES YOU CANNOT COMPREHEND ÷ Sex is not just about stripping off clothes. Nope! there are more to it. You might not be able to dictate how healthy, spiritual or responsible your partner is. These matter can give you issues after a few minutes of pleasure.

YOU MIGHT EXPERIENCE HEARTBREAK ÷ Heartbreak which can be referred to as a breakup of a romantic relationship is one of the most traumatic event ever, especially if he or she were your first love. Research has proven it that breakups are the leading cause of psychological distress, and a major cause of suicide among young people.

Teens are immature, they can’t differentiate between true love and infatuation. Protect yourself by protecting your sanity…

Abstinence is still the key, for the sake of your sanity.

15 MOST EXPENSIVE SECONDARY SCHOOLS IN NIGERIA

Hmm, there are indeed various grades of private schools . Private schools that are exclusively meant for the rich. All fingers are indeed not equal, while some parents are trying so hard, struggling to raise little thousands to pay their children school fees some parents are busy splashing millions on their children school fees.

Most people are asking if the schools will provide jobs for thsese children after spending such amount of money while some are mocking them by saying that millions of naira does not make a child to know book (brilliant). And they forget so fast that there is more to education than just to “know book” or get a job. As long as these schools can beautifully offer her students formal and informal education then there is no cause for alarm. Good school worth good price.

HERE ARE SCHOOLS WHERE TUITION FEES ALONE, RUNS IN MILLIONS OF NAIRA AND THOUSANDS OF US DOLLARS

15…DOWEN COLLEGE, LEKKI LAGOS STATE2MILLION

This school is a day and boarding school that is richly equiped. A day student pays the sum of #1,250,000 while a boarding student pays about #2,000,000 per annum

14…CHRISLAND COLLEGE, IKEJA LAGOS STATE – 2MILLION

The students pays the sum of 2million annually. It is a vibrant school that competes nationally and internationally.

13…ATLANTIC HALL, EPE, LAGOS STATE – 2.27MILLION

This school has chose to maintain 600 students ages 10 to 17; with a staff-student ratio of 1:10. This is to enable every student to be known. This school is well equipped and their weekends is filled with great weekend activities like debate, concerts etc.

12…CORONA SECONDARY SCHOOL, AGBARA, LAGOS STATE – 2.55MILLION

This school puts more effort to graduate a well rounded student both locally and internationally. The curriculum allows students to sit for local (NECO), regional (WAEC) and international (IGCSE) examination.

11…HILLCREST SCHOOL, JOS – 2.55MILLION

This unique school is owned and operated by eight missions/church organisations.

10…LOYOLA JESUIT, ABUJA – 2.8MILLION

This unique school is very selective, yet the most sought- after secondary school.

9… MEADOW HALL, LAGOS STATE – 3MILLION

This school is founded by Mrs Kehinde Nwani in 2002. The school is focused on grooming life-long learners. Their fees is as “low” as # 3MILLION.

8…GREENSPRINGS SCHOOL, LAGOS STATE – 3.185 MILLION

This unique school is member of ISCP, AISA and AAIE. They are recognised locally and internationally. The boarding fees for a student is 3million-plus annually while a day student pays 1.925,000 annually.

7…WHITE PLAINS BRITISH SCHOOL, ABUJA – 3.6MILLION

This unique school is a school that their teaching merges the British National Curriculum to its standard.

6… DAY WATERMAN COLLEGE, ABEOKUTA – 3.7MILLION

This unique school is a modern co-educational boarding school designed to provide amazing learning environment.

5… LEKKI BRITISH INTERNATIONAL HIGH SCHOOL, LAGOS STATE – 4MILLION

This is the origianl British school in Nigeria, which was established in 2000. Everything about the school measures with that of the international standard and with amazing educational facility.

4… AMERICAN INTERNATIONAL SCHOOL, ABUJA – 4.3MILLION

This school is truly an international school with over 30 nationalities represented in the student’s population. They are good in selections, they have only 500 students from pre school to grade 12.

3… GRANGE HIGH SCHOOL, LAGOS STATE 4.5MILLION

This amazing school is one of the only three in Nigeria to be accredited by the UK’s Independent Association of Preparatory Schools (IAPS)

2… BRITISH INTERNATIONAL SCHOOL, LAGOS STATE – 4.48MILLION

This amazing school does not only boast academically but also excellent facilities.

1…AMERICAN INTERNATIONAL SCHOOL, LAGOS STATE – 5.5MILLION

The very number one school is based on US National Standards and their fees are paid only in US Dollars.

80 ACTIONS OF A WISE WOMAN…

CONTINUATION…5POINTS ALREADY DISCUSSED PREVIOUSLY.

#6 THEY DON’T FALL FOR A MAN’S STATUS÷ Oftentimes, women fall for already made, money, status and regret later. A man’s status is a product of achievement, it can come and go. Fall in love with a man himself and not what he is within his status.

#7 THEY DON’T CUT ALL OTHER CONTACTS FOR A MAN÷ if you find yourself in this predicament, you need to rethink because doing so is giving up part of yourself. If you are sacrificing all of your desires, dreams, visions and goals to be accepted by a man, then very soon, there will be nothing left for you again to live for. An insecure men always make demands that will ruin their partners.

#8 THEY DO NOT BECOME THE FINANCIER OF A MAN OUT OF DESPERATION ÷ Nothing says one cannot court an unemployed man, but it is important that he proves that he deserve your hand. Do not try to keep a man by financing him. He might just be there for the cash and will still leave when he finds what he want or if you try to buy him.

#9 WISE WOMEN REFUSE MENTAL, PHYSICAL, SEXUAL AND FINANCIAL ABUSE…I TIMOTHY 4:12 ÷ In abusive situations the abuser behaves as if it is your fault or everyone’s fault but not him. All his weaknesses, he regards them as the fault of somebody. He does not accept the fact that he is at fault or needs to work on himself.

#10 THEY DON’T THROW THEMSELVES AT A MAN…PROVERBS 18:22 ÷ A man is suppose to be the finder, the woman is the keeper. Men by nature are hunters, warriors who must seek after what they want. To be bitchy and to pursue a man is to reduce the part of the testimony and joy, you ought to get from him via honour. Be dignified, let your husband love you, let him seek after you. If he sought for you and found you, the chances are that he will keep you and keep honouring you. Carry yourself according to your destiny.

#11 WISE WOMEN AVOID INVOLVEMENT WITH MARRIED MEN÷ Jesus said, we must do to others what we expect them to do for us. If you send out a sound expect an echo. Those who sow the wind must be prepared for a harvest of hurricane. The Bible calls any relationship outside of a marriage a sin but today it is becoming a NORM and we are suffering BIG TIME because of our disobedience. Avoid the danger of being carried away by the promises he has made to you.

#12 THEY ARE WISE ENOUGH NOT TO ALLOW THEIR INSECURITIES DESTROY THEIR FUTURE÷ The things we have gone through in life tend to shape us, and if you have been disappointed by the opposite sex it raises the chances of insecurity. They do not allow the insecurities born out of their experiences to destroy a good thing coming together for them.

#13 WISE WOMAN DO NOT REPLACE A MAN’S MOTHER ÷ It is very frustrating for a man to be treated as if he is still a child. Many women who have probably lived with a child for long, especially single parents, they do not know how to transition from talking to their little boys to now talking to the man who is now their husband.

#14 WISE WOMAN AVOID SEEKING EXPENSIVE GIFTS AS A SIGN OF LOVE AND COMMITMENT ÷ The priority in any relationship must be the heart and not the purse. Whether he takes you out for shopping or to an expensive restaurant , what really matters is not the kind of gift he showers you but the kind of heart from which it comes and the constancy of it. Whatever a man does should be in proportion to the love he shows you and his commitment to you.

#15 THEY ARE WISE ENOUGH NOT TO THROW AWAY A DIAMOND THAT LOOKS ROUGH …EXODUS 16:15… ÷ Inspite of the adage not to judge something by its wrapping, today’s marketing and packaging has influenced our thinking. We buy things purely because of the way they are and how it is being presented to us, and what we are told they can do for us, even when we are not sure. We bring the same philosophy and attitude into our relationships and things that will shape our destiny. We marry men that we know we may not be able to live with simply because we chose to look at how handsome they are. While on the other hand we may meet a man who is a diamond in the rough, by the way, diamonds never look glittering. A diamond was once coal that went through a lot of heat and become a stone in the rough, and chipped until the beauty came out. There is absolutely nothing wrong in liking what you want but firstly do not be carried away by outward looks. Do not be carried away by your critical opinion.

TO BE CONTINUED…