Blessing Okoro is a relationship and mental expert, an intellectual entertainer. Who is the CEO of Break or make up Therapy Lounge. She discussed a very interesting topic that are really affecting men and women negatively in their marriages and relationships.
Firstly she alerted that an insecure person is a toxic person who does not believe in himself let alone in another person.They are simply waiting for you to fall a victim to what they are thinking, so that they will be happy and use that against you.
Insecure person does not like a strong person because their mission is just to bring you down. So if you are strong, they will apply another method and make sure that they trouble your life. They are like witch crafts (modern day witchcraft). They just want to make you miserable.
Here are 5 signs that shows he / she is insecure
– They do not trust you. They are not sure about you. You are always a suspect because whatever you do is suspicious to them even when you are doing the best and right things.
-They will make life uncomfortable and miserable. You will never be at rest because it’s from one quarrel to another. If you didn’t pick your calls on time,(trouble) if you finally pick and sound dull, you are doing something bad. Always digging to get a fault inorder to condemn you or agree to what they assume.
They will turn you to a professional liar. It is not that you are a liar or loves to lie. It is simply that they do not like the truth and you dont want drama either. When you tell the truth, you are lieing. So you have to create a lie that can sound truthful to his or her ear. You got to explain in many ways.You can’t tell such person that you were not with your phone when he or she called, they expect you to wear the phone as pendant wherever you go. Whether you pick or didn’t pick, there must be an interpretation. They interprete everything.
They will always tense you up. You will always get angry and insults. You shout to defend yourself. Especially if you are a decent one . They dont believe that you can be faithful especially if you are pretty. They don’t listen, they can only hear. Most times you will prefer staying all by yourself.
They are insatiable. They cant be satisfied. They form FBI, POLICE, spying every where, finding and digging for something, telling friends and family to watch your movements. They always love to check your phone. They just didn’t believe in themselves, so they cant give what they do not have.
In conclusion, she said that it is insecurity in relationships and marriages that gives birth to Domestic violence, Verbal abuse, trolls and Mental disabilities. .